On Turning a Half a Century Old

Upon turning a half a century old, I have a lot to reflect on. Some good, some bad, but all valuable in its own right. Does life really begin at 50, or is it basically just the beginning of the end? I remember, vividly, the day I turned 25. I was depressed...so depressed. I knew, as the not-so-happily married mom of one almost four-year-old daughter with a "real" job and real bills, that I was no longer a kid anymore as soon as that clock struck midnight. I remember the week leading up to that day, crying regularly, knowing that day was the "beginning of the end" for me. I remember staying up until the clock turned, just to see if I felt different. I totally did. I felt grown, I didn't feel like I was in a good place, and I was depressed as hell! That year, my mom helped my then husband and friends in my neighborhood host a party for me. By host, I mean she basically planned and paid for it. She was worried about me. We still call it Suicide Watch 25 because it was THAT BAD in my … [Continue]

On Raising 2 Kids on Opposite Ends of the Spectrum

For what it's worth, I'm just a mom raising 2 kids on opposite ends of the spectrum and the struggle is real. Every day life poses challenges that only other moms on this rollercoaster can understand!

For what it's worth, I'm just a mom raising 2 kids on opposite ends of the spectrum and the struggle is real. Every day life poses challenges that only other moms on this rollercoaster can understand! I'm raising two kids on opposite ends of the spectrum and it's weird, y'all. So weird and challenging. By spectrum, I'm not talking the autistic spectrum that some of my friends (man, those mommas are superheroes in my book!) have to deal with; I'm talking spectrum as it's defined in Webster, just in general. Spectrum:  Used to classify something, or suggest that it can be classified, in terms of its position on a scale between two extreme or opposite points. Two extreme or opposite points? Yes, that's my Kylee (Bug) and Zachary (Bubby) to the millionth power. They are at opposite points in everything...eating habits, vocabulary, scholastic skills, social skills, clothing preferences, futuristic goals...you name it, one is red, the other is violet...just like the opposite … [Continue]

DIY Mardi Gras Home Decor

Just so you know, I did receive product from Oriental Trading Company to facilitate this Mardi Gras home makeover, but I promise I'd be sharing our DIY Mardi Gras Home Decor as I do every year, regardless. As always, all opinions are entirely my own. As soon as you walk in my front door at this time of year, you know that we're approaching the Mardi Gras Celebration! Every nook and cranny is adorned in DIY Mardi Gras Home Decor so that our house dazzles in the traditional colors of purple, green, and gold. It's a little gaudy, it might even be a bit over the top, but it sure is a whole lot of fun, and we love it! From masks, to beads, to archways, and more, if you're looking to decorate your home to celebrate this year, it's way more affordable than you might think! Mardi Gras is right around the corner, and I couldn't be more excited. Mardi Gras, also known as Shrove Tuesday or Fat Tuesday, has a moveable date that occurs on any Tuesday between February 3rd and March 9th. It's … [Continue]