It’s Fall! Are Your Kids’ School Uniforms Ready?

French Toast School Uniforms for Fall

If your kids are in need of new school uniforms for fall, don't go from store to store looking for something in their size, visit instead. They sent my babies fall uniforms to facilitate this post and we're hooked! School uniforms. They're a great equalizer and I'm kind of a fan. Well, I'm a fan of equalizing the haves and have nots and the no drama morning outfit debate that I don't have to deal with, but I'm not a fan of trying to find these uniforms at my limited local stores in the right colors, the right sizes, and the right seasonal attire. Until now. Now that I've found French Toast, that hopping from store to store to never find what we needed struggle (the struggle was real, y'all) is over! You see, my babies are tiny, and our weather is crazy on the island this time of the year. By tiny I mean, Bug just turned 9 and she wears a size 7 in clothes, but the pants are way too short, and so are the shorts, so we always get skorts with leggings. Bubby will be … [Continue]

Excuse My Absence, I’ve Been Under the Elbow

Life Lessons from a broken elbow 9 29 15

If you've ever broken a bone as an adult, you'll relate with this post. If you've ever shattered an elbow and were still left to adult, these life lessons learned while under the elbow will resonate with you. Sit down, grab a coffee, and come feel my pain. Y'all, the past month (OK, 25 exact excruciating days) has been rough. I've been absent from here, I've been absent from social media, and honestly, I've been pretty absent from life. Why you ask? I've been pretty much under the elbow. Most people are occasionally under the weather, they're gone a few days, they been come back. But you see, when you fall "under the elbow", you're pretty much down and out for a good long while. Why do I keep saying pretty much? Well it's either the pain meds or the fact that no matter how broken (literally) I am, I still have to adult. Honestly, I really haven't felt like adulting, but I've pretty much been pulling it off. Anyway...before I get on to the lovely life lessons I've learned as a … [Continue]

Dear Kids, About that Allowance You Never Got from Me

Dear Kids, About that allowance I don't give you. You're welcome. Love, Mom

An open letter to my kids, all six of them, about that allowance that they never got from me no matter how hard they begged, no matter how hard they worked, no matter how hard they tried to state their case about how much they earned it. Dear Kids, you're welcome! Dear Kids, About that allowance you never got from me? You're welcome. All of you have asked for it over the years (except you, Bubby, my youngest and current favorite, but you will). You see, I'm one of those moms that doesn't believe in a traditional "allowance" because, really, I already pay you enough. I pay you too much, in fact. Let's dissect allowance, shall we? Allowance the amount of something that is permitted, especially within a set of regulations or for a specified purpose. Huh? Every time you broach this topic, my dear lovelies, I scratch my head. Can I have an allowance? By definition, it makes no sense. With practicality in mind, it makes even less sense. You cleaned your room and you want an … [Continue]

1st Day of School 2015: The Making of a Meltdown

My 3rd grader had a meltdown. How do you cope with the first day of school?

The first day of school is a joyous occasion for many, a new year of learning and making new friends. But in our house, it's often the making of a meltdown. I'm never sure who is going to breakdown, be it me or one of the kids, but I know it's bound to happen. How do you deal with a childhood meltdown? Here's our story of the first day of school 2015! The first day of school around our house is a pretty big deal. We bend the rules significantly during the summer months and truly give the babies a break. It's always been that way in our house, with all 6 kids, but possibly more with the youngest two for obvious reasons (hello, I'm not ready to let go of two more AND I know how quickly it passes). But with that said, when school time rolls around, specifically the day before, it gets real up in here. The day before is chaotic at best, scrambling around to get last-minute supplies ready, lunches made, uniforms laid out, dinner on the table on time, BED TIME...that kind of thing. I … [Continue]

A Successful Marriage Requires Falling in Love Again

The key to a successful marriage is falling in the love is falling in love with the save person many times

Everyone has marital problems from time to time. It's how we deal with them that's key. A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. Life has its struggles. We all know this, and yet, somehow it's all worth it. Marriage is no exception to this rule. Marriage is hard work, y'all. But it's totally worth it because that bond has so many perks. That bond is the true meaning of life. THAT BOND is what makes or breaks a successful marriage and family, and when that bond is challenged, it's time to fix things. B and I are certainly no exception to the "challenged bond" rule. We've had our ups and downs. We all have. Those couples that tell you that their life is perfect? They're either lying to you or they're lying to themselves. I've said that many times, but it bears repeating. No one's marriage is perfect. We're all human. We'll disagree. We'll fight. We'll have a propensity to give up. Just quit. Human. But what do you do when you think the … [Continue]

Make Family Memories in Your Own Back Yard

Natty Ocean Island Summer Escapes Pool Party

Stop spending all of your money thrill seeking at amusement and water parks. The best family memories are made in your own back yard and Backyard Ocean has you covered with their Float to Fill Ring Pools. Note that I did receive this product to give to my extremely precious granddaughter in exchange for my honest opinions, and memories none of us will ever forget. Children are actually very simple to please, before we teach them otherwise that is. I think we often forget that in our quest to keep up with the Jones. That Jones family that has all that great stuff and goes on lavish vacations? They aren't happier than you. They are just maxed out on credit cards, and quite honestly, they're probably trying to keep up with you too. Toss all of that aside, stop spending copious amounts of money on amusement parks and water parks (that probably stress you out anyway...wait, that's not just me, right?), and make affordable and fun family memories in your own back yard! Your kids, and your … [Continue]