Middle School, B.L.A.A.R., and Lessons from Bug

I'd like to thank Click Communications for sending us Middle School: The Worst Years of My Life so that I could share with you my feelings on standardized testing, my Bug's journey as a square peg, and our feelings in general on this movie. "Rafe has an epic imagination…and a slight problem with authority. Both collide when he transfers to a rule-crazy middle school. Drowning in do’s and don’ts, Rafe and his best friend Leo hatch a plan to expose the principal by breaking every rule in the school’s Code of Conduct. As the principal strikes back, Rafe’s world, at home and at school, explodes into hilarious chaos (both real and imagined) in this laugh-filled family comedy based on James Patterson’s best-selling book series."  Middle School: The Worst Years of My Life When I was first presented with the opportunity to watch Middle School: The Worst Years of My Life, I really had no interest. I mean, for real, I still have kids in elementary school, I've watched others of mine go … [Read more...]

My Baby Girl Is Broken and I Can’t Fix Her Alone

A while back I made a bold stand and explained that my baby girl was different. She's a societal square peg being shoved into a round hole. I stand by that. She doesn't fit any mold and I celebrate her uniqueness and I support her no matter what. She's my baby. That's my job. I love her unconditionally, and I always will. But lately, she's been trying that unconditional love theory. She's been trying it for 6 years in fact and I'm beginning to think that I can't tackle these issues alone. She's a bright girl. She was in the GT (gifted and talented) program at school until earlier this year when I pulled her and moved her to a different school. She's no dummy. At. All. She's intelligent, beautiful, and she amazes me every day. But she's broken and I'm afraid I can't fix her alone. I have to be honest with you because honesty is important to me. At times, she's just bad. She doesn't mean to be. I know she doesn't. But she pitches fits (like frightening fits), she talks back, she's … [Read more...]

Encourage Your Daughter to Read and Succeed with Go! Go! Sports Girls

Just so we're clear, I did receive product from Go! Go! Sports Girls to facilitate this post, but all opinions, ideas, and photos are entirely my own and I'm a firm believer in the message behind this product. Let's just put this out there, I'm a girl, I have four girls of my own, and I know that girls are "pretty". We're supposed to be "pretty". That's all, right? Not in this house. Sure, pretty is a word we use, but we don't base our existence on the fact that we're pretty. Pretty isn't the be all, end all of anything. Girls are strong. Girls are smart. Girls can and should be successful in life. But often that message is lost with our young girls because of the messaging out there these days. Even the toys just tell our daughters that pretty is enough. It's not and that's where Go! Go! Sports Girls come in. Dream Big Toy Company™ created Go! Go! Sports Girls™ as a fun and educational way to promote self-appreciation and the benefits of daily exercise, healthy eating and … [Read more...]

Dear Society, Kylee is NEVER Going to Fit in Your Round Hole and It’s OK!

Dear school teachers, dear school admins, dear society, I get it. She drives me crazy too. But Kylee, my Bug, is never going to fit in your round holes. Don't force her to conform. She can't. Although it pains me, I won't make her. She's not built like everyone else and that's what makes her unique. She's clever, she's cunning, but she's not cut from the same cloth that you are. Don't make her think that she's anything less because she's different. She's not less. She's different. Don't get me wrong, when she's awake, when she's making me doubt my parenting skills, I get frustrated too. But then I step back and really look at her. I look deeply into those big blue, knowing, defiant eyes, and I see the spark. When I watch her peacefully sleep, I see her "normal". And it's in those moments that I know that my square peg is anything but less. She's more. More than you'll ever know because you don't give her a chance. Give her rote activities and she won't do well. Challenge her creative … [Read more...]

DIY Aurora Queen of the Moors Crown

This DIY Queen of the Moors Crown was inspired when I received an early release copy of Disney's Maleficent from Click Communication to help promote the in-store release on November 4th. All opinions, ideas, and photos are entirely my own. "For in the other kingdom, the Moors lived every manner of strange and wonderful creature. And they needed neither king nor queen but trusted in one another." Maleficent is my new all-time favorite Disney movie EVER! That's saying a lot. I'm a Disney freak. One might think it's because I have a million kids so I had to learn to embrace them, but that's not true. One of my very first vivid memories as a child was going to the movie theater with my mom and my sisters to watch a Disney movie. I was hooked at about the age of 3 and things haven't changed since, and I never miss a single new release. Unfortunately, because there were questions about whether Maleficent was completely kid friendly, I opted to skip it at the theater *SIGH* and … [Read more...]

I Feel Like I’m Failing My Children…

I've been parenting for 25 years now. Not just parenting like most. I've had littles in my house for the entire 25 years. I should be a pro. I should have school issues down. I should be serving my babies well. But I'm not. I feel like I'm failing my kids. Today was the day I almost had a meltdown, a failure as a parent, because this school year has been full of trials and tribulations that I have never experienced in all of my years of parenting. Are the babies feeling the pressure too? I try to shield them from the bad stuff, but this year has been a struggle. Let me just say that in all of my years as a parent, I guess I've been lucky. I've really liked most of the kids' teachers, the schools, the experiences. We've had a few bumps along the way, but that's normal and I handled them with grace and dignity and the schools, the teachers, always worked to improve and fix anything that might have gone wrong. That's to be expected. That's how it should be. But this year has been … [Read more...]